I am thinking of trying to apply for the first time home-buyer credit. With the new form i see you have to submit your HUD-1 statement along with your tax return. To help with paying the down payment we were given a gift of equity from the seller (House value was $240,000 but gift from seller of $70,000 to help with down payment). This is not from a related family member. I was wondering if this line item on the HUD statement will draw a red flag during IRS review and the credit will be disallowed. Any ideas on how this will work? Thanks. 
I moved to NC a couple years ago. Besides my parents, brother, sister n law, and fiance, my whole family lives in WV. My fiance's whole family lives in TX. Because of complications i'm considered a high risk pregnancy and not supposed to travel. So I can't go to my original planned baby shower in WV. My fiance's family is setting up a web cam baby shower so that's taken care of. But I don't know what to do for my baby shower for my friends and family back home. They all aren't going to get together for a web cam thing. I'd like to just get gift cards but I don't wanna just say "i can't come up just send a gift card," ya know? Any ideas on how to ask for that and tell them i can't come up? 
I am on the verge of destroying my relationship. I really want to prevent this because I really love him and would hate to see the relationship go. The problem is, I cannot stop accusing my husband of cheating. I am always imagining scenarios of where and how he could be acting unfaithfully, even when he spends most of his time with me. Yet, I am obsessed with the idea that he could be seeing someone else or making a fool of me behind my back. I have tried to sit quietly with myself to figure out what this fear is and where it comes from. But the fear is so big and so irrational that I can't even get outside of myself to examine what it could be or where it could come from. My family was filled with peole cheating on one another, and all of my friends have been cheated on too, so I guess I just found it hard to beieve that its possible to have someone that won't cheat on me. I am painfully aware of all the trauma I've inherited from my family, and I've been able to deal with all of it except this issue of trust. I should also mention that I do not trust women either, but that manifests itself differently. Usually with women, I don't even bother getting close, but if I happen to, I usually push them away by imagining that they are out to hurt me somehow, either by talking about me behind my back or stealing my husband. Being my husband makes friends with girls better then guys is also harder on me, becasue they get really close and talk about personal stuff like sex, which makes me upset because that should only be shared between me and him...and the way he's super friendly to his friends, boy or girl has an affect on me too because I see the way he waves to these girls and the way his face lights up when he sees them and he's always with them during his breaks at work and going to luch, or in their car listening to music, it just puts these bad thoughts in my head, that I know shuldn't be in there...and I feel so bad thinking he;s doing something he shouldn't be, and even if I know he's not the thoughts are always there...and I hate it. Yeah, he does joke around about cheating on me, and I use to be really worried about it, and I talked to his dad about it a while ago and he said that usually guys joke about it, its just part of who they are, plus I know my husband thinks its kinda funny when I get mad about something so he does things like that. But I have noticed some changes in him that made me think he was cheating, like he doesnt makeout with me anymore, but when we were in school he would do it everytime he saw me. i randomly kiss him, but ussually he doesnt do that to me, Im always saying I love you to him, but he doesnt really say it unless I say it to him, and sometimes even then he wont sa it, which really gets my mind wondering. I just feel like he doesnt love me as much as he use to, becasue hes not really showing it as much. And I feel kinda left out when we go placeses, and sometimes even at home because he will be playing a game or talking to a friend, and im doing nothing but taking care of our daughter, I know he deserves un and free time too because he works and I dont, but I would like to be acknowledged sometimes, and maybe during a break in the game get a kiss or at least an I love you. I want to end this once and for all. Not only is it annoying, but it's also really painful to deal with. I hate causing my husband pain by insulting his character, and I don't want to cause myself pain anymore with my fantasies of him cheating. How can I resolve this? Is there anything I can do to overcome this fear and live happily and in peace in my relationship with others? 
Clearly the roofing tool works because there are roofs everywhere in the town, but as soon as i scroll near any house the roof dissapears so that i can see in the homes. i've read somewhere that this is an option that i can turn off someplace in the game, but i have no idea where, i've been trying to figure it out, any ideas? 
My son is turning two really soon, and everyone i invited either it was a i cant make it, or i might be able to make it, or if i find a ride ill come. and i didn't want to get a big place and then have no one show up. and im not doing it in my house with alot of children (if they showed up anyways), because alot of them i know are very destructive. so what are some fun idea for my son for his birthday that's just an at home thing? i feel really bad about not throwing him a party, but that's how it looks like its going to be. an idea's will be appreciated =] 
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