We have been together for 14 yrs. We have 2 kids together... My husband "JB" has always controlled the money in every way... He always decides every major decision (like where to move..) I was very young when I got with him so, I was constantly trying to please him. I was always quiet around his friends. But! Now I'm grown up and have a voice I guess and speak my opinion quite frequently... This usually causes a bad argument. For instance* I said to him one day when chatting about buying a house... " we should really consider a home with a garage or basement so that you can have a social area for your friends.. with a tv and so on. (he likes this idea). Then I said " because as I get older I prefer not to have people over so much (and not even asked.. btw). He plainly looked at me and said "TOUGH!" .. well, that was that... I'm really tired of my opinion not mattering.. and he treats me like a child. Theirs so much more too, but this is the gist of it.. Should I just say 'screw you, I'm sick of this crap!" and leave? (he obviously does not like me getting older and more vocal...*sigh*
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