it is going to be our 1 year 3 month anniversary this Wednesday. im 21 and she is 20. we celebrate each month we spend together. i always write her letters and buy here flowers. we always go to the movies and dinner, and this time i want to do something different. this is a boring town and there is absolutely nothing to do. no rock climbing, no theme parks, no beach, no anything, the only thing to do here is the movies but i want something different. we both live with our parents so the idea of a home made romantic dinner is out of the question. so people if you have any ideas please do it. thank you 
OMG OMG OMG i dont know what to do im haveing my b-day party this summer my birthday was november so im already 14 but im still having a party the thing is I DONT KNOW WHAT FOOD TO GET AND WHAT THEME...im going to have probably 15 people but idk what to do this is so confusing so much pressure any ideas ya people have for me i mean i need some theme ideas and what food and what drinks i want the drinks to be cool but anyways PLLLLLZ HELP ME i dont have enough time to plan for my b-day party bk of homework ,studying and by time i get home its like 6:00 AAAAAAHHH HELP MEEEEEEE. 
my voice has been really deep for like 2 years.. and it's annoyingly deep. I just want to make it slightly less deep. Any ideas? Any home remedies or w/e u would like to call it? 
My pure bread Rottweiler has been sleeping All day. When i got home around 10AM she was her normal self of being excited when i walk through the door. But as the day goes by i notice her asleep, she went out to the bathroom a couple of times but would come right back inside to sleep. She went to sleep under the table while i was eating, and this is not normal for her. Is she alright, just tired or what because my Armani is a very active dog and shows no signs of life today. Any ideas please help??? 
I first noticed the swelling two days ago and had no idea what it was. I read online last night that it's his anal gland swelled with fluid. I called his vet this morning from work and they couldn't get him in today and told me to keep an eye on it for a couple of days till they can work him into their schedule which they said would be two days from today. I get home from work and go put his leash on him and notice his whole backside is a real mess. So I took him into the bathroom to wash the area off and notice he has two small holes in the gland. I called my vet again to only get the same response and I don't have the money right now to take him to a vet emergency clinic. I cleaned the wound and dressed it but have no idea what to do till the vet can get him in. He seems to feel just fine he's been more active today that he has been the past couple of days. He doesn't act like anything is wrong at all but obviously there is. I'm worried about some kind of infection setting in till it's time for his vet appointment. is there anything I can do to help prevent anymore complications? 
I apologize in advance because I know this is LONG, but I'm having a moral/value/right vs wrong crisis here and I need opinions. Back story: I have a driver. I lost my license and live in an area where you need a car and my boyfriend doesn't have time to drive me sometimes, so we hired a driver. He's a guy we know, I wouldn't call him a friend, but he's a friend of friends, and he has a very flexible part time job so we hired him. I'm in my 20's and my bf and the driver are in their 30's if it makes a difference. (Sorry I write like a high schooler) He gets a set pay every week. Weather he works or not he still gets paid. (This was not my idea, it's my boyfriend who pays him no matter what). And more often than not, he doesn't work. It's normal for him to go a week without doing anything, or working only one day, but he still gets his full pay. So every once in a while when I need him to do something extra, like drive somewhere extra far away - I don't expect him to complain after all those weeks he was paid for nothing (and the pay is good too.) So.... everyone knew I wanted to do a charity for Christmas. And what I wanted to do was to give toys to children living in a women's shelter. Well, that's not as easy as it sounds. Many of the sheltesr that I called didn't have kids, many of the people who answered the phone were down right rude or acted suspicious of why I wanted to help. So Christmas was getting closer and closer and I hadn't done anything yet and basically everyone in my life was like "Yeah yea, charity... whatever" and didn't really believe me that I was going to do it. Especially because they all think charity is stupid and pointless in the first place - so I really got no support from anyone. Well finally on the day of Christmas eve after calling 8 different places only to have each one refer me to another place, I finally found a really nice lady who had some kids staying there and that really needed to have a good Christmas. This was 3pm the day of Christmas Eve. Here is where the drama starts: I texted my driver right away and told him I needed to go to Toys R Us asap and the reason why. He texted me back that there was no time because everything closed at 4pm Christmas Eve (which was a lie - he knew exactly what time the store closed and was trying not to go) Well, I've never heard of anything closing at 4pm (random) I called the store and they said they were open till 5pm. I texted him back to tell him (Its was 3:30 at this point). He didn't answer. I texted again and again and again asking him to answer me - I got nothing. Now I'm not stupid. I know that he had his phone with him and was simply ignoring my calls because his girlfriend told him to. (And I later confirmed that I was right because the people who had been with him told me that this is exactly what happened.) I was freaking out. The fact that he was ignoring me made everything so much worse. Eventually I found another way there 20 minutes before the store closed. It was so stressful trying to get everything I needed before the store closed, and the store employees were annoyed by me because they just wanted to go home and I had no one there to help me and I was fighting tears the whole time in the store. I was so mad I finally sent him a text saying he's fired and I turned off my phone. But now here is the problem: My boyfriend thinks I'm wrong to fire him! Here are his points: 1 - It was Christmas Eve you can't expect him to work 2 - His girlfriend can't be blamed for not wanting him to go 3 -I wouldn't have gone either if it were me (this is the one that upsets me the most) Here are my points: 1 -It wasn't Christmas Eve, It was 3:30 the day of, and the store closes at 5pm so at most I need him for 2 hours (including travel time). 2 - His girlfriend CAN be blamed because instead of being a selfish jealous bitch she could have come with us and helped me pick out the toys for the girls. Especially because I had a lot of toys to buy and not enough time to get everything and I really needed help. 3 - It's not like I was asking him to take me shoe shopping. It was toys for poor kids on Christmas! How can you not go out of your way for a couple hours to help with that? It's beyond my comprehension. 4 - He could have answered me. He could have said "my girlfriend won't let me" or "i'll try to help you find someone else who can do it". But he held the phone (that by boyfriend bought and pays the bill for so that I can get in touch with him) in his hand and ignored my messages. And in the end it was HIS COUSIN who ended up driving me. But not because he asked him to help out - only because my boyfriend called him and asked him. 5 - Even if I had been asking something totally crazy (which I don't think I was) him and his girlfriend could have just given me the 2 hours I was asking for considering the thousands of dollars he's made off me and my bf (doing practically nothing) which helped him to affor The end got cut off. Here is the rest: which helped him to afford the expensive presents he bought his girlfriend in the first place. 6 - If it had been me in that position, I would have been so mad at my boyfriend for even suggesting that I not go help poor kids on Christmas. To clarify: - He wasn't doing anything important He was hanging out and didn't "feel like going". - My bf was working, that's why he couldn't take me. - Yes, I know that my planning and timing sucked, and I take responsibility for that part of it. I don't think I should have to be around someone, or even pretend to be nice to someone or continue to work with someone when I feel that they did something wrong to me. And it's not like we were great friends before all this, there have been a lot of incidents with him that made me question what kind of a person he is, and many things I've seen him do that I don't think is right. This was kinda like the final straw. My bf thinks I'm being too mean and too emotional I really feel that I'm right here. Especially because when I dropped those presents off the lady who works there who took them from me was in tears and giving me hugs. Those aren't even her kids and it made her cry. So I know that what I did was important. I am feeling really alone in this because there is not ONE PERSON in my real life who thinks I'm right to fire him over this and it's really upsetting me. Am I wrong??? If you made it this far, thanks for reading. I really appreciate all opinions. If you are going to give an answer like sassy did, can you please give an explanation of WHY I'm wrong? Because I honestly don't understand. I don't see how I was being inconsiderate or demanding. I could understand if I was asking for something petty for myself, but isn't helping children supposed to be important? Even if it inconveniences you? About the taxis - Getting paid for not working was not part of the original plan. Things got out of hand with that. My bf is just too nice and lets people walk all over him. I want to add that it's not like he was with family or anything. He was hanging out at a coffee shop doing the same thing he does every day. 
I am trying to come up with a creative idea on how to have my 4th grade nanny boy come home and do his homework after school. He seems to have an issue with sitting there and just finishing it, he gets bored easily. However he does fine while he is in school, but as I said it is a different story. His parents have tried talking to him, he is sucessful with them every so often, but now the three of us want so sit down and come up with a reward program for him when he gets his homework done. Any suggestions on ideas? 
I just ask this cause when I was in my teens, the Idea of me bringing a gf to my bedroom or home on a daily basis did not run well with my mom, in fact one day I got slapped by my mom for having a girl in my room while she was gone. But anyway now in mid 20's I notice 90% of my time I spent with my GF it is at her family's home. And at my parents home my teen sister's bf's are there almost everyday, and one of my sister's almost never visits her bf's home. I was wondering if this is how it is nearly everywhere and if so why? 
I jsut needa need 1 an idea becuz im at hom bye myself butt with my gma & i literly have NUTHING two do. my moms work she my dad is there two but me in my gma is at home adn she told me to looke up suething on the intrenet on the intertent butt it has to b edacational in i geuss this is so i need sum ideas annie hlep you guys? 
I am a mom of 3, almost 4. My oldest is 8 and will be in 4th grade next year. She is struggling alot. She is very smart, but not paying attention in class. She will bring home work to re-do because she did poorly on them and I will sit with her to help her and she knows exactly what to do, and finishes in less than 5 mins. She is a social butterfly and I think she is just rushing through her work so she can talk with her friends. I have tried many things from home to correct this, but only so much can be done from home. So, I am considering homeschooling. I am a stay at home mom already, but have started going back to school myself since all my kids were in school now anyway. I want to start with just my oldest to begin with, especially since I will have a new baby to deal with too. But I am really nervous. I have no idea where to begin. I have done some research and know what is required for my state, which is very minimal. But don't know where to start. I do not feel comfortable with un-schooling. I am afraid that I will not be disciplined enough for something like that. But really need some advice from anyone who has experienced this. Please, any sites or advice you can recommend would be great. 
I am 24, my sister is 22. We live with my parents, and my fiance lives with us too. Whenever my sister comes home, she will look at everyone in the eyes and say HEY to them, except for me. She literally acts like I'm not in the room. I will say hi to her, and ask how her day was, and she quickly responds with "fine", while she's walking away from me. She is constantly telling me that I am horrible to my fiance (because she saw us have an argument once). She invites all of our cousins (we are all close with our cousins) to her roomate's cottage, but he doesn't invite me. I asked her to MOH for my wedding, and I'm regretting it because I know she does NOT want to be MOH. Whenever I speak to anyone in the family or to her, she either snaps and tells me to shut up, that I'm annoying or that I'm an idiot. I was in a serious car accident today (I was unhurt but car is a write-off) and she didn't bother to call me. She loves my fiance, my friends, our parents - she is kind to everyone but me. My parents notice this and don't know why this is. My fiance notices it too and feels bad for me. He doesn't know why she hates me either. I don't know what to do. Suggestions?? 
I'm 25 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We both live home with our parents and were both very understanding to each others situation. We've been official for about 3.5 months, but we met and have been dating for about 6 months. We get along great and I would define our relationship as very healthy. Recently my boyfriend told me that he had a huge fight with his dad and it was about me. His dad expressed his dislike for me attacking my character, family and looks. The weird thing is I'm a very nice person. I come from a wonderful family, with a great foundation. Also, I've never been told anything negative about my looks in the past. Not to be conceited, but I'd say that I'm an attractive individual. Whatever the case, my boyfriend expressed to me that when his dad does not get a good read for someone or does not really know them, he makes the person up to be a certain way in his mind. I asked my boyfriend how I or our relationship has anything to do with him. My boyfriend said that before he began giving me a majority of his attention, a lot of his time was spent with his dad and his family. I've told my boyfriend that he is a grown man and should not have to get the approval of his dad to date a certain individual. He told me that his mom and siblings love me, but because I don't say much when I go to their house or accept food or drink when I am there, his dad feels that maybe I don't want to be there or I am not the person my boyfriend thinks I am. His dad gets the idea that I control my boyfriends every move. That is so not the case! Our relationship is very 50/50. We consider each others feelings at all times. The things we do together are always because we both want to do it. His dad cannot figure out why he likes me so much based on the person he has met when I go to their house. I'm very different with my boyfriend than I am with his family. From day 1, I've always gotten a negative vibe from my boyfriends dad that made me very uncomfortable when I am over his house. The best way I figure I can get through it is to smile and nod my head, but I really don't say much. Typically when I am in an environment that is new to me or I am uncomfortable in, I don't say much and I become very observant. I am a talkative person, but usually it takes some time for me to open up. My boyfriend feels like the way his dad feels is his fault, because he does not talk about me much to his dad. He talks more about me to his mom, because he doesn't feel that his mom is as judgmental. I've met a lot of my boyfriends family and they all love me, the only person who is not accepting is his dad. My family loves my boyfriend as well, but I told my parents what his dad said about me and they were not very happy. I care about my boyfriend a lot, but I feel that I am too grown to have need the approval of his dad. My boyfriend and I are both very close to our families and rely a lot on family approval, but we both know that things can work without the approval of parents. On many occasions in the past, I've gone to church with my boyfriend and his family and even gone over there just to hang out. I told my boyfriend that I no longer feel comfortable doing that. He said he understands. I'm unsure of whether or not the relationship with last. Should I make an effort to change his dad's view of me? I think that in order for me and my boyfriends relationship to get stronger, it is important that I act maturely and put on a smiley face even if I don't want to. I know that my boyfriend and I have not been together long, but I am curious to see where things can go and that is why I do not want to end things over something like this. No one said that relationships were easy. In order to enjoy the good times, you have to work through the hard....right??? 
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